Archive for May, 2008

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Friday 16th May 2008

May 16, 2008

It is not easy to say good-bye, especially when the person you know has been a big part of what you have been doing.  Today we had to say good-bye to Vasta, one of our matrons.  She has been with us for seven months, and today she left to go home to her village.  There were a few personal reasons why things were not working out for her so she has left.  It was good that we left on good terms and she was looking forward to going home. 

The matron we hired a couple of weeks ago has taken over from Vasta, becoming a new mother to the children.  The children were surprisingly ok with the transition, I suppose when you have been through what some of them have then it does not seem like such a big thing.

Photo of the day has to go to Vasta:

Vasta, though you may never read this, thank you very much and Akanyijuka will miss you!

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Thursday 15th May 2008

May 15, 2008

Being busy can get one down from time to time and taking time out relaxing can be good to bring your sanity back.  Today there was not too much on, just chasing up a few things for Sunday School, catching up with a few people about making arrangements about interviews for the Nursery Teacher’s position and spending an hour at the mechanics getting the fuel pump and filter removed from beside the passenger’s seat back to under the bonnet where it should be.  This gave me a bit of time to think, but yesterday I had just finished a book ‘A Long Way Gone.’  It is a story of a boy’s life from Sierra Leone.

It was a fantastic read, well written and very hard to put down.  The only problem if you read it and don’t allow things to distract you, you cannot help but be moved.  At an age when I remember trying to figure out a way that I can get my mother to think I was sick so I could stay home from school and play with the boy next door, the boy in the book had been separated from his family as his village was attacked by rebels, run half way across the country in fear of his life, almost found his family only to discover they were all killed in a village that was ambushed by rebels, joined the army out of necessity, becoming a junior lieutenant, killed endless amounts of rebels and even civilians, been rehabilitated by UNICEF in the capital (Freetown), been reunited with an uncle and lived with them, flown to New York as part of a conference for young people from around the world, returned home only to find the war now reached the capital and fled to Guinea to avoid being killed by the war or even worse being caught up again in the fighting.  I cannot help but think how my life is concerned with trivial matters, sure, one needs to be concerned with their well being and that of their families, but how much of what we chase after seems irrelevant or immature; that is when you compare it to others who have to strive with everything they and their family has to just find food for the coming evening.  While we put in as much effort to get ahead of others around us, just to appear to be better off than our neighbours.

The book was not all gloom and doom, ruining me, as it also shows that there are people out there that do really care, though they seem to be few; and that even though people go through bad situations there is always hope and a chance of improvement.  Usually though with the way things are, people in hard situations are there because those who should be helping are abusing, but when they receive help from someone else it can make all the difference.

In my travels today I ran into Pam and Eddie and talked about a boy that someone from Australia sent money over to sponsor to go to school.  His name is Santunamo (Not sure of the spelling, but that’s how you say it) and he must be around 16 or 17 years of age, and can speak English to some extent.  Pam was saying how gobsmacked he was that he had the opportunity to go to school.  When she took him to try on a uniform he insisted on trying his shorts and shirt on together to make sure they looked good.  Today when they gave him his books at drop-in he just laid them out on the table shaking his head and kept say ohhh, ohhh Mummy.  He has been to the school and had a test and is going into Primary Three.  That is grade three in Australian terms, though it is probably not too much higher a standard than grade two. 

Though it is possible that Santunamo may not ever turn out to be a doctor or even a teacher, but he now has a chance.   He like most of the other boys at the drop-in now have someone showing them that there is hope for them in the future, no longer are they destined to be forever roaming rubbish piles and scavenging for their next meal.  Through going to school they are getting a chance to just have their morale lifted, to think more highly of themselves, no longer are they the scum of a back beat town in the middle of Africa.  They are important enough for someone from the other side of the world to help them out.

Personally I am so grateful for the opportunity to be here in Kabale, Uganda, to witness and be involved with such things, being connected with the drop-in and being a part of Akanyijuka, which is helping children that were possibly heading down the same path as the drop-in boys.  I look at my life and can only say that what I have been doing in the last year has been the most significant thing I have accomplished in my life.  I can only attribute my being able to set my own concerns to the side, to those who have influenced my life;  my lovely wife who has shared this journey with me, my mother and father, my senior pastor, the ex-missionaries from my church who are nothing but an inspiration to me, my close friends and family who encouraged my every move with words and finance, and to God who is always willing to change one who is accepting.

OK then, that is a big post – length and content.  Let me lighten things up a bit and say that there is some great photos of Max from Akanyijuka on my photo site.  I have uploaded another profile and Max was next in line.

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Here’s another photo from the breakfast table:

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Wednesday 14th May 2008

May 14, 2008

Today started in a very different way.  I had risen early and was reading a book, then when it became late enough to make some noise I did the clothes.  I had been thinking of doing this and that before having to take children out for the last scheduled visitation and was about to hang out the washing.  Pastor Edward, who was away in a village sharing, rang to ask me to take Peace to the hospital as she thought she was ready to give birth.  I drove to Edward’s place, as this is where I was told to go.  It is different trying to drive in a rush after the rain has come.  Not because the roads are wet, but because the pot holes are full of water, ready to splash walker bys. Luckily I did not get anyone, but I gave one lady a big fright. 

When I got to Peace’s home I found out that she was not there, but at the shop.  I had driven about three times as far as I needed, not to worry, she seemed fine when I got to the shop and she was happy to make it to the hospital without any worries.   We left her there and went about the day, checking in a couple of times throughout the morning.

At lunch we took our last trip to take children on visitations.  It was a big crew; Junior, Prudence and Michael, as well as Elizabeth and Joan.  i could not resist getting a photo of Junior, Prudence and Michael’s grandmother, who was happy to pose for a photo:

Here is also a photo I took of an example of housing a little outside of Kabale, on the side of a mountain, it’s a fair walk up. 

But back to the beginning of the day, we went back to take Dorothy, Edward and Peace’s daughter, home to get some food for their lunch up at the hospital.  News was that she was still in labour, but within half an hour when we came back we saw this:

A little, half an hour old boy, yet to be named and with a nose like his father’s.

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Tuesday 13th May 2008

May 13, 2008

It was another day of home visits, today it was Christian and Isaac who went.  It is great to see the previous guardians come out when the children are coming back to Akanyijuka, they are often amazed at the difference, or excited about stories, but they are always full of gratitude.

The big event for today however was our night guard coming home after a weekend off.  He arrived home one day late, he always seems to out do the last story in some way.  Last time he came back with a letter from the local councillor, as he had to chase after some people who had crossed over from Rwanda and stolen some of his goats.  This time his youngest wife, that’s right, we also found out that he has two wives, the younger one ran off with some of her children.  Fred went again over the Rwandan border to chase after them.  He got two children back, but the wife wanted money to get the youngest son back.  Or at least this is the best I could make of his story in his not so good English, and my even worse Rukiga.

But it is good to have him back, not a nice thing for him to have had to go through, but as Fred puts it – there is now no problem, we are safe, he is security!

Today’s photo of the day goes to Joan, being a typical big sister rousing on someone smaller:

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Monday 12th May 2008

May 12, 2008

Today we started to seriously plan for the team coming from Taigum Australia – just under seven weeks until they arrive in Uganda.  It will be an action packed week or so for them, and for us.  They will also be here on the 2nd July, which is the one year anniversary for Akanyijuka; it’s good they are going to be here, as we can rope them into helping with preparations.  Sixty odd people is not easy to cater for, and we are having it at our place. 

It was also a busy day with child visits; two at lunch (Alex and Joyce) and then two at dinner (Blessing and Christine).  We managed to be at Akanyijuka for a while and I took a few photos so I thought I would post a few for you.  Also check out my photo site as I have added a profile of Blessed.

Here the children thought they were looking cool with some sunglasses:

 

 

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Friday 9th – Sunday 11th

May 11, 2008

Friday we took Emmanuel, Moses, Agnes, Ronus and Susan for home visits.  There’s not too much to say, except there was happiness all around.  They were all happy to go home for a visit, and then happy to return to Akanyijuka at the end of the day also.

Saturday was a milestone day for Kathryn and me – one year in Uganda.  We took the opportunity to go to the lake for a relaxing day.  It started not too good, with a flat battery in the car, and then there was rain and storms threatening all afternoon; at one stage we were sitting outside watching a storm just on the other side of the lake.  You couldn’t even see the other side of the lake at one stage.  It was good to have a day out and enjoy relaxing after a busy couple of weeks running around.  Here’s Kathryn at the lake – luckily I am the one with the camera so you don’t get photos of me:

Sunday was a trip to Edward’s church, Lisa Roberts preached a good word about words.  She spoke on the tongue and its power, which was well received by the church.

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Thursday 8th May 2008

May 8, 2008

Photo of the day goes to Stella – a new matron in training.  She started on Tuesday and seems to be fitting in ok so far:

Today we took Moses and Blessed for home visits.  We were a little nervous about taking Moses as last time we took him he was upset and did not enjoy it.  When we picked him up he was very excited and was looking forward to the outing.  But when we went to drop him off he panicked a little, he thought we were just dropping him off and leaving him there.  But when he realised that Teacher Rogers was going with him he was ok.  It is no wonder he was scared a little from the previous life he had.  He seemed to not mind the visit, but apparently did not talk too much.  Hopefully in time, when he fully understands the situation he is now in he will feel more comfortable with his extended family.

Blessed on the other hand, though appearing a little nervous when we dropped her off, seemed to enjoy things a lot better.  Here is a photo of her walking across the road with Judith on their way up the hill:

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Wednesday 7th May 2008

May 7, 2008

Today was Catherine Dorcus and Kobusheshe’s turn to go for home visits.  I dropped them off to come back 2 hours later to pick them up again.  When I returned the family for Dorcus had not yet eaten, so I left them and went to pick up Kobusheshe and Rogers first, but they also were running late.  At both places the family/previous guardians, as normally happens, came out to thank us as best they can.  Most do not speak much English, but you can tell that they are so grateful at what has happened to those that formally lived with them.  Rogers said that they were going to slaughter a duck in honour of Kobusheshe, but they did not because he told them it would take to long to prepare.

When one goes again to visit the homes where the children have come from it takes you by surprise again, the conditions that some of the people here have to live in.  The little of everything they have, and the impossibility that it is for some to change the situation themselves.  Today I did not take any photos so I thought I would throw in a couple from just the other day:

A view in the morning from the verandah breakfast table:

And a little girl we saw the other day:

Hey Quinton, just wondering if you remembered to take everything or not?

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Tuesday 6th May 2008

May 6, 2008

Today’s home visits were Daphne and Catherine.  I did not see where Daphne went as you can only get there by walking so there was no need for me to drop them anywhere.  Just as well for me as I believe it is a very long walk; upwards!  Catherine on the other hand I did.  It was also a long trip up a mountain side, but for us we were lucky as there was a track that we could drive up to drop her and Rogers off.  It must take over an hour to walk from the main road, at least.  But what a walk, sensational views all the way.  The locals don’t seem the least bit phased by the views, but for me they are magnificent:

The track we drove on even looks good with the locals carrying all manner of things along:

How could one not love views like this, if everything else we were giving at Akanyijuka was not there, I would feel bad about taking children away from this:

 Today we had a new matron start, Stella.  She is known to Pamellah and is very nice.  She does not speak too much English, but enough for greetings.  Looking forward to seeing her more.  I just remembered now that I did not get a photo, sorry, will try tomorrow; if I remember of course.  We also met with headmaster Rogers to organise getting some people for interviews to replace Prossy as Nursery teacher.

Today, all at Akanyijuka were happy as it was Agnes’ birthday and they always like a little bit of cake at birthday time, or at anytime actually.  Photo of the day has to go to the birthday girl of course:

 

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Monday 5th May 2008

May 5, 2008

Today was Samuel, Dorothy, Patience and Andrew’s turn at having a home visit.  Andrew actually used to live in walking distance to Akanyijuka, so Rogers took him; while I took the others with Pastor Shaban to supervise the visit.  Here is a quick photo I took of where I dropped them off.  This is where they would be living today if they did not come to Akanyijuka:

 Kathryn and I met with Pastor Edward and Pamellah to talk on various things, including the hiring of new matrons.   I now also know why Quinton had many late nights while here in Kabale.  He was looking after the finance side of things; hopefully when I get my head around what is going on it will take me less time.

Today’s photo of the day goes to Benalita, with her new hair do: